The Bruise

I have tried to write this blog post several times and each time I have erased what I wrote and walked away from the computer. I'm not sure why I'm having such a hard time updating because nothing bad happened at our appointment; in fact we have made some great progress. I guess my heart is just a little overwhelmed with this new step.

First, I must say that the TS Houston clinic is wonderful. Everyone was so welcoming and kind. I loved Dr. Koenig and Dr. Northrup. They were both so welcoming and you could tell passion was involved in their practice. Joan and Patty were both equally as wonderful! We knew we made the right decision as soon as they walked in.

So now onto the details... We will be weaning Maddie from Sabril starting on Monday. I'm excited and terrified all at the same time. Secondly, we got the prescription for the face cream for her angiofibromas(tumors on her face). We have noticed over the last 6 months the red spots becoming more noticeable so this was a priority at this visit. We are so excited to start this cream and see if it will help them. It breaks my heart to know she is already showing signs of them, but I'm happy that we have a way to hopefully reduce them. And lastly, we are now enrolled in a genetic research that is for TSC patients who have no mutation but do have a clinical diagnosis. This is really exciting! Like I said in a previous post this really won't necessarily help us in our dilemma. But it may lead to new breakthroughs so we are happy to be a part of that.

So why has this been so hard to write out??? I can't exactly answer that because I'm still not exactly sure. The best I can explain it is like this...

I mentioned earlier that we are in the genetic research program which meant we had to have blood drawn. Well today I looked down and saw the bruise left behind from the lab work. As soon as that small bruise caught my eye, my heart dropped as I thought of all that is behind that little bruise on my arm. The bruise is from TSC. Well not exactly, but hopefully I can explain...

When we first got the diagnosis of TS it hurt, it hurt parts of me that I didn't know could feel pain. It left us hurt and bruised. The bruise was apparent, it hurt and was hard not see. But over the last year of no seizures and wonderful progress the bruise, and pain, has slightly faded. Although, we know it's there we haven't had to see a lot of the effects of it. The purple color of the bruise had faded leaving only a small trace of discoloration.

Now all of sudden the bruise is back. We are weaning, we are getting cream for her face, we are making preparations for the possibility of seizures. It's a reminder of the fight we fight. It's the reminder that seizures could be lurking around the corner. The pain comes back when we face the ugliness of this bruise. It's the hard reality of our life being different. Although all parents have fears, ours are also accompanied by the fears that TSC brings. Hearing the words, weaning, behavioral issues, brain surgery, sedation, IEPs brings a large amount of fear and pain. The bruise becomes darker and more painful. My heart physically hurts that Maddie has to go through this, that we have to go through this, that so many others have to go through this. It just doesn't seem fair to be sitting in a room full of doctors telling us all kinds’ of bad things to watch for. They have no clue what's going to happen and neither do we. We just have to sit back, pray and have faith that God will continue to work miracles, ease our pain, and guide us in making these hard decisions.

I know these fears will slowly fade back down to my "normal" level, just like the bruise on my arm will lighten each day. But for now the bruise is dark, the pain hurts, my heart is heavy, and my fears are high. 

We can't predict TSC. We can't predict what it may or may not take from our daughter or family. But what I can predict is God's grace carrying us through this. I am so glad I can count on His mercy and love for our family.

 

Please be in prayer for us as we start this new step. Please specifically pray that Maddie will continue to be seizure free. And please pray the God would give us peace and comfort as we leap out in our faith in Him.

 
Thank you all so much for the prayers as we traveled. We are so thankful and blessed to have you all praying and carrying for us like you do.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of is strengths."

-Corrie ten Boom

Playing with Grandma Jane

Burning off some energy

She loved the Disney Store

Was too young for the ice rink, but enjoyed watching the others